Protect your newborn from infections by following this expert advice
Once you've welcomed your new baby into the world, it won’t be long before friends and relatives come over for cuddles. But did you know that kisses from visitors should be avoided?
The Lullaby Trust found that 54% of new parents would let friends and family members kiss their newborn, but this can expose your baby to potentially dangerous infections.
What are the risks of visitors kissing a newborn baby?
Infections are easily spread by droplets in the air or when an infected person coughs, sneezes, kisses or touches something.
Paediatrician Dr Rachael Barr, aka @thekidsdoctor_ on Instagram, explains that newborn babies are particularly vulnerable to infections because their immune systems are not yet developed and ready to fight off germs.
“A virus such as herpes is usually fairly mild in adults, causing minor symptoms such as cold sores. However, if a baby catches it and develops neonatal herpes, it can be serious,” she says.
“Because people can pass on this virus even when they don’t have visible symptoms such as a cold sore, it’s worth being extra cautious,” she adds.
And herpes isn’t the only virus that can be passed on to your newborn by kissing: RSV (Respiratory Syncytial Virus) is usually mild but can sometimes cause severe breathing difficulties in young babies.
First, is it safe for parents to kiss their newborn?
Yes! Unless you are ill, it's totally fine for you and your partner (or your baby’s main carer) to kiss your new baby. Since your baby is already exposed to your germs and protected by maternal antibodies, your kisses are a lovely way to bond.
Simple precautions for visitors
While it's natural to have concerns, welcoming visitors can still be a joy. Just being aware means you can take the necessary precautions to minimise the risk. A simple way to keep your baby safe is to follow The Lullaby Trust’s T-H-A-N-K-S guidelines, which remind you to ‘Think Hands And No KisseS’.
Whenever someone pops around to see the baby, ask them to:
Wash their hands with soap and water
Wash your hands well, too, especially before breast or bottle-feeding.
Refrain from kissing the baby
Remember that kisses at this stage are only for parents or baby’s main carer.
Come another time if they’re not well
If they aren’t feeling well or have recently been ill with a cold, virus, cold sore or stomach bug, rearrange the visit.
A no-kissing policy doesn’t mean visits are no fun, though! There are still ways for friends and family to show their affection, such as:
Holding the baby (while you enjoy a hot cup of tea!)
Letting baby grip their (freshly washed) little finger
Blowing kisses from a distance
Top tips for getting visitor-ready
Preparing for visitors doesn't have to be stressful – a few simple steps can help everyone feel comfortable and keep your baby safe.
Message your visitors beforehand, letting them know that cuddles are fine, but kisses should be avoided.
Stock up on a nice-smelling hand wash for your loo, ready for your guests to wash their hands.
Open a window but ensure your baby is warm and not near a draught. Circulating air can help prevent infections.
Set boundaries without guilt
“We got so used to asking people to wash their hands when they came over to see our baby that it became one long sentence: ‘If-you-want-to-hold-the-baby-please-wash-your-hands-thanks.’ No one ever minded!” says Kayci O’Brien, mum to Esme, three months.
Remember, you're not alone in wanting to protect your precious newborn. By setting gentle boundaries now, you're giving your baby the best start in life. Before you know it, your little one will be stronger, and those family kisses will be moments to cherish.
