Starting Nursery School: A Guide For Parents

Toddlers playing at nursery

Starting Nursery School: A Guide For Parents

Get your child ready for nursery with our practical tips

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Joining a nursery class or preschool is exciting, but it can also feel a bit daunting for you and your tot. Don't worry—we're here to help you navigate this milestone. Let's dive in and get your little star ready for their big debut!

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Preparing your little one

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Here are some practical and fun ways to get your child ready for nursery:

  • Chat about nursery: Keep it positive and exciting. Talk about the new friends they'll make and the fun activities they'll do.

  • Build independence: Practice putting on shoes, using the loo, and washing hands. Make it a game – who can put their shoes on the fastest?

  • Read together: There are lots of lovely books about starting nursery school. Snuggle up and read them together.

  • Play 'nursery': Set up a pretend nursery at home with teddies. It's a great way for your child to act out any worries.

  • Visit if possible: Your child’s nursery school may offer an open day and home visit to help your child feel more comfortable before they start.

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The big first day

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It's here – the first day of nursery! Here's how to make it a good one:

  • Stay calm: Your little one can pick up on your emotions, so try to keep those nerves in check.

  • Establish a routine: A solid morning routine can work wonders. On their first day, maybe treat them to a special breakfast to mark the occasion.

  • Pack smart: Check with the nursery about what's needed. Usually, a change of clothes, any necessary personal items, and a comfort toy (if allowed) are good bets.

  • Keep goodbyes short: A quick hug, a cheerful "See you later, alligator!" and off you go. Lingering can make it harder for both of you.

  • Be punctual for pick-up: Being on time helps your child feel secure and builds trust.

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Getting into a routine

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Once you're in the swing of things, it's all about keeping the momentum going:

  • Talk about their day: Ask open-ended questions like "What was the favourite thing you did at nursery today?" It's a great way to get them chatting.

  • Communicate with staff: Don't be shy about talking to the nursery workers. They're there to help and can offer valuable insights.

  • Stick to a schedule: Kids thrive on routine, so try to keep nursery days consistent.

  • Watch for any issues: A bit of clinginess is normal, but if your child seems consistently upset, have a chat with the staff.

  • Celebrate achievements: Made a new friend? Learned a new song? These are all reasons to celebrate!

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Toddler playing at nursery

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What does your tot need for nursery?

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Now, let's talk about the practical stuff. Asda offers some great, affordable options for nursery gear:

  • Lunchbags and bottles: From fun character designs to practical options, there's something for everyone.

  • Backpacks: Look for child-sized bags with comfy straps – your little one's shoulders will thank you.

  • Snacks: For nurseries that allow packed snacks, consider healthier options like fruit pots or cheese portions.

  • Remember to check your nursery's policies on bringing food and personal items.

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Common worries (and why you shouldn't fret)

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It's totally normal to have some concerns about your child, but if you're concerned about anything, have a chat with the nursery staff. They're experienced in helping both children and parents navigate this transition. Here are a few common worries:

  • Separation anxiety: This is normal and usually eases with time and consistent routines.

  • Social skills: Nursery is a fantastic place for developing social skills – your little one will be making friends in no time.

  • Readiness for learning: Don't worry – nurseries focus on age-appropriate activities and development.

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Enjoy the journey

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Starting nursery school is a big step, but it's also an exciting new chapter for your little one. There might be a few wobbles along the way, but with a bit of preparation and a lot of love, your child will soon be thriving in their new environment.

Here's to new adventures, finger paintings, and the start of an incredible journey!